(2 Tim. 3:5-7),
I thought about having a good man on my side. I prayed that God would send me a man. My exact words were, "God, please send me a man". Within a weeks time, I thought that my prayers were answered by God. But instead, Satan sent me a carbon copy of the man that God had for me. I say that the enemy heard my prayers, very loudly and kept me in bondage and tormented for over ten years.
Having a form of godliness. You can't change the original. No matter how many times you look at that carbon copy, you cannot change it to be the original. Satan is very cunning and will not hesitate to send you a form of a godly man. He will not hesitate to send you a carbon copy of the man that you desire to have as your husband. If you wait on the Lord to send you the man that He has already chosen for you, before you were even in existence, you will get the original version.
What makes you think that God would send you a carbon copy of the man/woman that He has picked out for you? What makes you think that God wants for you to shack up with someone that beats you in your face.? What makes you think that God wants you to live in bondage with a woman/man? What makes you think that God wants you to be beat on, cheated on and cursed out everyday? Women tend to put up with a lot of things from a man waiting for that carbon copy to become an original. God will now send you His best if you don't act like His best.