Saturday, May 19, 2012
MOTHER, MOM, MOMMY
One day I read something on Facebook that was so disturbing to my spirit. It was mainly concerning the relationship between a mother and a daughter. The daughter is very upset with her mother, so much to the point that she basically states that she hates her mother. She has no relationship with her mother, other than to curse her out and remind her that she was never there for her. I am hurting and praying for both of the women in this relationship. I know that the mother is in pain over her daughters issues with her and I know that the daughter is in pain. I want you both to be released from past hurts and disappointments.
Forgive your mother. Pray for your mothers well-being and her peace of mind. You have to pray for her because she knows the mistakes she made with you. Even if she never admits it, she is well aware of how you feel. Praying for your mother will give you the deliverance that you need. Mother, if you are reading this, pray for your daughter this will help you to get a release from God concerning your shortcomings and mistakes that you might had made.
You have to pray for your mother and keep praying until you have the ability to love her inspite of her shortcomings. If you do not break that curse it will carry on for generation after generation. Life is too short and there are no guarantees that your mother will wake up in the morning. Forgive your mother now, because if she passes away before you have the opportunity to develop a relationship with her you will have a hard time forgiving yourself.
I do not want you to misunderstand me, daughter. I feel your pain. I know exactly what you are going through and what you've been through. I do not take your pain lightly. I just want you to be free from all your past hurts and disappointments you have had with your mother. You are in a lot of pain, regardless of the fact that you say you have gotten over the fact that you have not called her mom in years. That tells me that you are in pain. Take sometime for yourself to heal, but you cannot get there until you release your mother from her shortcomings. I love you and this is the reason why I am trying to encourage you and keep you uplifted in the Lord. I also want you to consider using your pain and anger that you have against your mother to be a testimony for someone else that is probably going through the same things right now. I promise you, you are not the only one. Push pass all your disappointments and let God heal you so that you can minister to someone else. God doesn't make mistakes, you are not a mistake. God knew that you were going to go though exactly what you are going through right now, let God heal you daughter.